Are the FIVE military bases and the evangelicals the reason that Colorado Springs has no dating scene?

EVERY woman in this town seems to be already married and has two or three toddlers in tow. Why is this? Also, EVERY girl that I have met while going to the community college here has a b/f. This scenario is unheard of in southern cities. Sure, there are young married couples in the south with toddlers, but not on the scale that there is here in Colorado Springs. Why is it that every woman that I've been attracted to in this town has a b/f? Please believe me when I say that it IS NOT that way in North Carolina. There are TONS of single women in the Tarheel state, unlike here in the centennial state.